And I really can't see an unborn child as a person.

So, for you, when a baby comes out after 8-9 months in their mother suddenly then they're a person and if they come out earlier they are not? Or do you not believe they're a person for the whole time they are inside? Baby's can move and hear when they are inside their mothers, like the person above said, they have heartbeats and brain activity. If that isn't a person I don't know what is.