And I was totally going to leave it there, but then I had all these Tragic Thoughts about how Lyn-Z was angry about the erasure of her identity and career as a performer but Ashlee might not have been in the position where she was in control of that before, and the changing of her professional name to Simpson-Wentz is actually her positively creating an identity...

Even so, I can't see using your husband's name as a good professional move. And saying it's omething women 'should' do? Oh dear, Ashlee.