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[wildestranger]

Newly married Ashlee Simpson is changing her name to Ashlee Wentz in honor of her husband, Fall Out Boy Pete Wentz.

"I think that that's something that a woman should do when they're marrying a man," she tells PEOPLE. "It's a tradition that I think is a great tradition."

Seriously? A great tradition? You mean the tradition which declares that a woman who has been her father's property now becomes her husbands' property, that tradition? The one that says a woman's identity should depend on her husband?

I just lost what little respect I had for Ashlee Simpson. And the fact that Pete Wentz seems to think it's a great idea, something that gratifies him, makes me think a lot less of him as well.

Comments

[wildestranger.livejournal.com]

There are definitely male-centric aspects to bandom (as there is in any fandom), but there are also people making a concerted effort to redress the imbalance. There is a community for bandgirls, which includes both female members of bands in bandom, such as VickyT from Cobra Starship and Greta Salpeter from The Hush Sound, and various wives and girlfriends, some of whom are famous in their own right. I've got a slightly conflicted attitude towards the idea of talking about wives and girlfriends who aren't public performers themselves - mostly they seem utterly cool people and I love their characterisation in fanon, but I'm also uncomfortable about using private people in fiction (whereas boys in bands are clearly begging to have porn written about them *g*). I don't think this is a more sexist fandom then any other, and I'd even go so far as to say that there's a lot more squee over the women in bandom than I've seen in most other places.

[shaggydogstail.livejournal.com]

That is interesting. Obviously my perspective as an outsider looking in is skewed by the demographics of my flist, which is unlikely to be a representative selection. I would say I've never seen much overt sexism, in terms of bashing women and the like, which is certainly an improvement on some fandoms. (SPN fandom, I'm looking at you now.) It's surprised me because a lot of my friends-who-are-into-bandom are vocally squeeful about women in fandoms we share, but I really hear them talking about bandom women. I don't know that many bandom folk, though, so this may not really mean anything.